BEING "ME" 

After all of the positive inspiration that I gave to myself after coming USA, there was still some thing which was not letting me be "FREE". It was really difficult to find out what it was. After so much thinking and restlessness , finally I got the answer from myself only. Yes .!!! This is what we often forget to do!! Talking with ourselves.!!! We have read it a thousand times and we know that we need to talk to ourselves and listen to our inner voice. But, all this theory is never or rarely implemented in our lives. We get up and every day becomes busy in getting our lives easier.! But, somehow we forget to get easy with ourselves.! 

Yes..That is what we need to do .! Be easy with ourselves.! After all the restless nights , I came to know that one thing which was hindering my thoughts and was not letting me sit with the peace.! It was : "Expecting a lot, and not accepting much." 

And BINGO..!!! I just got what I was finding from so many days.! At that very moment, I decided to accept the life as it comes. Here comes again a friend whose lines are simple but quite effective. Life is at its best when you expect less and it is only possible when you stop trying to understand the life. We waste our times in analyzing our situations in life and by the time we analyze it, that time has already gone away. Again comes the new time, the new life and new analyzing..!!! Cycle goes on and on..!

So best way is to stop analyzing and start living.! Most of us really don't LIVE but just EXIST.! We love to be happy, but we keep trying to make others happy .! It is good to make others happy, but I believe that if you can't keep yourself happy then there is not at all any point in making others happy.! Then next question is : From where does this happiness comes from? Shopping ? having party ? fun?...Well, answers depend on every individual. But for me that ultimate happiness comes from within. That one point when you make yourself comfortable with life and most importantly with yourself ! It is that point when you finally realize that being yourself is the ultimate happiness.! There will be times when we make mistakes, we let down our expectations, we behave like we have never imagined.!! We keep blaming ourselves for our mistakes and rest of the time we keep analyzing it.! But, there comes one point when you finally accept yourself, expect minimum from life and that is the point you make PEACE with your mind. No amount of money can buy this peace and no amount of time can alter this peace. This is the time when you finally realize that LIFE is worth LIVING ; and the most important thing is we can not LIVE our lives by being what we are not. So just BE YOURSELF and accept every single bit of it.

So let's take time out from this busy life and give ourselves enough space to find ourselves. ! Even 5 minutes of talk with ourselves can also make our day better .! If we can spend half of our time in searching profiles of others, why can't we take out 5 minutes for ourselves?!! Let us all try to give this 5 minutes to ourselves daily and just make sure we be who we are in front of ourselves. 

Cheers to Being "Yourself". I am sure you will find a lot happiness and peace and I hope we all will maintain this for our upcoming rocking life.

Cheers for being "YOU"...(y)