And yes....It's Independance !!
Something is holding me ! I don't know what . Inspite of endless busy days, plenty of friends, distance from home, there is something else that is holding me ! Is it my fear?Is it relations? Is it my thoughts? !! What is that !!! ...
And yes.. I guess I found the answer. It is independance from myself !
There comes situations in life when you become emotionally dependant on people. Dependant on your job, on your relations , on your nature and above all on yourself. We become so dependant on ourselves that we are not ready to change it! It gives us feeling of fear to change ourselves! What if no one will like that? What will people think ? What will cause its effect on ourself?
Phewww.............
Just taking a deep breathe, I realised that none of these things matter. There is so small difference between attahcment and dependancy that we often replace them with each other. There is nothing wrong in being attached! Attached to people , attached to our thoughts, feelings, relations,job,career. But what disturbs most of us is when this attachment becomes Dependancy!
We become so much dependant on people that we don't like if anything chnages . We become dependant on our relations such that we can't survive without them! We become so dependant on our thoughts that we can't change them! And Inspite of being our strength these thoughts , relations and ourself catch us and holds us back.
There is no big loss I would say in being dependant. But there is a big big big advantage of being independant. Just for a moment , if we think things on which we are dependant ! What will come to our mind? People,relations,friends,family,our thoughts,our nature,our ownself,our career,our love............Just for few seconds feel that you are independant of all these things!!! How would it feel? There is no one to talk about you, there is no one to hurt you, there is no one to stop you!
We can fly as high as we can possibly imagine! And that height is Independance!
It is much more than just doing everything by yourself. It is doing things without thinking of anyone.It is doing things in such a way that will make you feel better, make you feel indpendent :)
Does it mean be detached with everyone? does it mean that don't get attached to anything ??
Never. You can not love anything if you can not feel attachement to it.You gotta feel attached and loved to your career,your relations,yourself! But, being independent brings you freedom to love it in such a way that there is no fear of losing! And this attachment brings out the best in you!
There is nothing that will hold me. Being independant is being me! Giving all chances of freedom. All chances of mistakes, stupidity and craziness! There is no fear of losing.
So this is what independance brings to me!
No fear! Love! Attachment !
Freedom to Fly !!!
I am on that path now .
And this little moment of independance makes me FREE :) :) :)
P.S. [Thanks to my parents who let me fly in this beautiful world, due to which I am on my path of being truly Independant]
Something is holding me ! I don't know what . Inspite of endless busy days, plenty of friends, distance from home, there is something else that is holding me ! Is it my fear?Is it relations? Is it my thoughts? !! What is that !!! ...
And yes.. I guess I found the answer. It is independance from myself !
There comes situations in life when you become emotionally dependant on people. Dependant on your job, on your relations , on your nature and above all on yourself. We become so dependant on ourselves that we are not ready to change it! It gives us feeling of fear to change ourselves! What if no one will like that? What will people think ? What will cause its effect on ourself?
Phewww.............
Just taking a deep breathe, I realised that none of these things matter. There is so small difference between attahcment and dependancy that we often replace them with each other. There is nothing wrong in being attached! Attached to people , attached to our thoughts, feelings, relations,job,career. But what disturbs most of us is when this attachment becomes Dependancy!
We become so much dependant on people that we don't like if anything chnages . We become dependant on our relations such that we can't survive without them! We become so dependant on our thoughts that we can't change them! And Inspite of being our strength these thoughts , relations and ourself catch us and holds us back.
There is no big loss I would say in being dependant. But there is a big big big advantage of being independant. Just for a moment , if we think things on which we are dependant ! What will come to our mind? People,relations,friends,family,our thoughts,our nature,our ownself,our career,our love............Just for few seconds feel that you are independant of all these things!!! How would it feel? There is no one to talk about you, there is no one to hurt you, there is no one to stop you!
We can fly as high as we can possibly imagine! And that height is Independance!
It is much more than just doing everything by yourself. It is doing things without thinking of anyone.It is doing things in such a way that will make you feel better, make you feel indpendent :)
Does it mean be detached with everyone? does it mean that don't get attached to anything ??
Never. You can not love anything if you can not feel attachement to it.You gotta feel attached and loved to your career,your relations,yourself! But, being independent brings you freedom to love it in such a way that there is no fear of losing! And this attachment brings out the best in you!
There is nothing that will hold me. Being independant is being me! Giving all chances of freedom. All chances of mistakes, stupidity and craziness! There is no fear of losing.
So this is what independance brings to me!
No fear! Love! Attachment !
Freedom to Fly !!!
I am on that path now .
And this little moment of independance makes me FREE :) :) :)
P.S. [Thanks to my parents who let me fly in this beautiful world, due to which I am on my path of being truly Independant]
Good going... Feel free fly free 🚀
ReplyDelete